My friend Theresa told me about a friend she was traveling with who had a horrible time, but when Theresa read her blog, it looked like an entirely different trip because the friend sounded so upbeat. It’s a temptation to put a positive spin on everything. I admit, though, that I am feeling pretty whiny and sorry for myself.
A week ago last Tuesday I got a bad cold, and despite advice from friends, decided to keep going instead of resting, so I’m still sick. I have a horrible adult version of diaper rash which has now extended to my armpits, so I spend a lot of time undressed in my room in front of the fan trying to get dry and unirritated. Someone pointed out that wasn’t so good for my cold, and I’m sure they’re right! So do I address the rash or the rattling cough and headache?
The weather is hot again, and I am not accepting it gracefully. I keep looking at the weather report and praying for a respite.
1 comment:
Your authenticity is why we're still friends sweetie :-) There's a balance between appreciating the good, accepting the bad, searching for the positive and whining about the negative- we need it all- just in the right proportions. Together, we manage that- reminding each other once in awhile that it's not all bad, kicking each other in the a$$ when we devolve too deeply into self-pity, and questioning each other when we're only seeing the bright side and forgetting that there are other issues to think about. So keep whining so I know you're my human friend and not some fake Stepford friend!
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